Manners

Manners are the social traits that each and every human carries in relation to the entire society and people around. Manners have the social norms and values that act as a yardstick to measure how an individual carries around himself in relation to others. However, it is highly believed that male and females have different manners that can act as a repulsion or an attraction to each other.Manners can be displayed at one's work place. Respecting the elders at your work place and greeting well others are other ways of displaying manners. It is rude to ask a lady to lift heavy material while you look at her with your hands thrust in your pockets. Picking up ones nose is bad manners that are oftenly associated with men, than with women. Again telephone manners is something that speak volumes about people, even though you hardly know the person. Some people are rude over the phone and some are nice and well cultured. At times manners are cultivated at work, home, school and so forth. Talking over the phone while eating produces a cacoophenous sound which disrupt the other receiver. Arguing over the phone is ill-mannerisum that can kill ones character, reputation per se or as an organisation.Manners transcend to include even the way we dress ourselves. Just like the way we dress language so does dressing manners. In business and for professionals dressing formal and with a neck tie for man is propare mannerism which reinforces and instills faith and trust to the people you are dealing with. Reception is another way organisation maintains mannerism. Women who are highly receptive in welcoming clients have higher chances of being admired and respected by the community members. Manners assist in maintaining social cohesion, solitarity and fosters professionalism. Talking to elders with your hands in your pockets indicates rudness.The way people dresses language speaks volume about them. It is one element of manner that though subtle, but have more impact than one could anticipate. Diction of words even when you are talking to someone of opposite sex is important. Language can entice and put someone in the good mood and right position. However, such manners are learnt at school and can make people to manipulate and to be ranked highly over others. Introducing yourself to a stranger takes certain manners for two of you to creat a phatic communion (Social relation). The manner we handle ourselves also is part of manner that can make people to love, admire and wish to associate themselves with you.At times it is good to look at yourself and see where you are lacking in terms of manners. People can continue for a long time with bad manners without knowing that it causes discomfot to others. Some people are rude. For instance in Zimbabwe because of the long queues people are ill-mannered. They have no respect for others. Someone stands in the queue the whole day, and someone comes and stand in front of him without even piting with them. Valger language is a sign of bad manners. people often uses vulgar to silence others in a crowd which is bad mannersWomen in a courtship prefers man who are well-mannered. People ususally collect their marks highly through displaying good manners. The way you approach a lady, even for the first time can reveal your manners. Women prefer smoothly and nicereception which is entertwined with knowledge.Culture is another element which assist in moulding individuals and ensuring good manners. Speaking with a low voice even when you are in despute, is a manner which can resolve the contention. I would wish to know much from whoever thinks that he or she has something more better than what i have said. The floor is yours and i will be happy to hear and learn what others think and know about this issue. Lies also are part of manner and culture. People lack good manners by lying to their hubbies, ladies and to their bosses.